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Prioritise better in 10 minutes (even when your brain is screaming)

This 2x2 map changed how I handle overwhelm. Let me show you.

Ever felt like your brain is a tab-overloaded browser but the tabs are to-do lists and emotions?

šŸ‘‰ That was me last week.

Things are growing (yay!) ā€” the business is getting busier, the community is popping off, and Iā€™m so gratefulā€¦ but also kind of spiraling. šŸ˜…

So hereā€™s the challenge:
How do you figure out what to do first when everything feels urgent and important, and youā€™re already stretched thin?

This editionā€™s new essay format helps me explore this - so read it below!

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A STORY, STRATEGY, & SYSTEM:

How to prioritise when everything feels important

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A STORY, STRATEGY, & SYSTEM

The Growth Spiral

THE STORY

So here's the truth ā€” things are picking up in the best possible way. More clients, more community members, more collabs, more... everything.

And honestly? Thatā€™s the dream.
But it also meant I hit this weird wall where my usual systems justā€¦ broke.
I kept thinking,

ā€œWhy am I so overwhelmed if these are good problems?ā€

My head felt like Notion, Slack, Google Calendar and my own inner monologue were fighting for dominance. Even though I knew what needed to be done, I couldnā€™t see it clearly. And the second I tried to prioritise, I got stuck in ā€œbut what about this?ā€ spirals.

Stop and Sort (even if it feels counterproductive)

THE STRATEGY

I realised the issue wasnā€™t what needed doing ā€” it was that I wasnā€™t pausing long enough to actually see it clearly.

Likeā€¦ I knew the difference between important and urgent, but my brain needed a visual to help me trust that instinct. So I stopped. And I started mapping.

I now do a brain-dump to map my tasks based on two simple things:

  • Ease (how easy is this to do?)

  • Impact (how much does this actually move the needle?)

Just doing this makes me feel like Iā€™ve got my footing again.

The Impact-Ease Map

THE SYSTEM

This baby right here šŸ‘‡ is what saves my overwhelmed little solopreneur soul.

Hereā€™s how I use it:

  • Quick Wins ā†’ Do these when I need a little boost or motivation to get going. Easy + impactful = dopamine AND momentum.

  • Timeblock ā†’ Schedule the high-impact hard stuff so I know it will get done and it doesnā€™t float around in my head.

  • Delegate or Drop ā†’ If itā€™s easy but doesnā€™t matter? Offload it.

  • Just Drop It ā†’ No impact, high effort = BYE šŸ‘‹

I do this once at the start of a busy week, or anytime I feel swamped. It takes ~10 mins and saves me hours of anxious flailing.

Got a good prioritisation framework? Iā€™m still learning and adapting, so Iā€™m all ears if youā€™d like to hit ā€œReplyā€ and have a chat about it! šŸ‘‚ļø 

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